Start with a little curiosity
Three steps to finding your kind of connection
See who's nearby
Join free, create your profile and explore people near you. Share your interests; a profile picture is optional.
Make the first move
Send a free Hot, similar to a like, or enter a flirt message to show your interest. See whether the feeling is mutual.
Find common ground
Be clear about what you want and respect the other person's boundaries. Decide together whether you want to meet.
Try it at your pace
Free to join. Free to show interest.
- Create your account and look around.
- Send a Hot to someone who catches your eye.
- Enter a flirt message and send it for free.
Ready for a private conversation?
Full one-to-one private messaging requires an upgrade. Check the current options and prices in the service before purchasing.
You can explore and see whether you receive interest first. A response or match is never guaranteed.
Know the service
A real service, with safeguards that matter
David Minns founded Saucy Dates in the United Kingdom in 2007. The service is built for adults who want shared attraction and honest intentions without assuming every connection must become a long-term relationship.
Saucy Dates does not create profiles to simulate member interest. Liveness checks help verify ages and identify and remove scammers and fake accounts.
Your privacy. Your boundaries.
Pictures are optional. Keep your address, workplace and financial details private, and report suspicious behaviour. Checks cannot guarantee another person's intentions.
For a first meeting, choose a public place and arrange your own transport. You are always free to change your mind.
Find your country
Explore our guides to casual dating where you live.
Beyond the profiles
Dating insights from Saucy Dates
Explore our original surveys about dating and relationships, or browse articles before making your next move. Each survey describes its own respondents and questions, rather than all adults or today's membership.
- How long does sex last?
- World’s best and worst lovers
- Men versus women in relationships
- Sex and relationships by age
- Do men exaggerate penis size?
Explore the research · Read dating articles · Press resources
A few things you might want to know
Who is Saucy Dates for?
Adults aged 18 and over interested in casual dating and shared attraction. Be honest about your intentions and look for people whose expectations fit yours.
Is Saucy Dates free?
Joining, looking around, sending a Hot and sending a flirt message are free. Full one-to-one private messaging requires an upgrade.
Do I need a profile picture?
No. Pictures are optional. Choose what you feel comfortable sharing and avoid identifying details you want to keep private.
Can I search for people near me?
Yes, the service includes location-based search. Available profiles depend on your area and preferences; a match or reply is not guaranteed.
How are members checked?
Saucy Dates uses liveness checks to help verify ages and identify scammers and fake accounts. Continue to use your judgement and report suspicious behaviour.
Where can I get account help?
Read our account questions for help with usernames, passwords and logging in, or contact support.