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Safety

Protect yourself while you connect. Follow these safety ideas whenever you chat, match, or meet in person.

Stay Safe — Stay on the Platform

We can only protect you while you’re here. Moving a chat elsewhere removes our scam protection.

Be Friendly, Stay Critical

Deepfakes can fool the eye. Treat video as a start and verify identity through other means.

Don’t Be Pressured

If someone insists on private photos, they may plan to use them for blackmail.

Meet Where Help Is Nearby

Public locations with staff or other visitors — like cafés or museums — keep you safer.

Let a Trusted Person Know

Before leaving, tell someone who you’re meeting and where.

Stay Ready With Your Phone

Charge it fully and keep your important contacts saved and easy to reach.

Keep Control of When You Leave

Travel independently so you can go home when you want to.

Go Alcohol-Light

Low-ABV choices help you stay present, observant, and in control.

Stay in Public, Stay Safe

Private spaces can wait — early trust-building happens in public.

Keep It Simple

Smile, talk, listen — and have fun being you.