Safety
Protect yourself while you connect. Follow these safety ideas whenever you chat, match, or meet in person.
01Stay Safe — Stay on the Platform
We can only protect you while you’re here. Moving a chat elsewhere removes our scam protection.
02Be Friendly, Stay Critical
Deepfakes can fool the eye. Treat video as a start and verify identity through other means.
03Don’t Be Pressured
If someone insists on private photos, they may plan to use them for blackmail.
04Meet Where Help Is Nearby
Public locations with staff or other visitors — like cafés or museums — keep you safer.
05Let a Trusted Person Know
Before leaving, tell someone who you’re meeting and where.
06Stay Ready With Your Phone
Charge it fully and keep your important contacts saved and easy to reach.
07Keep Control of When You Leave
Travel independently so you can go home when you want to.
08Go Alcohol-Light
Low-ABV choices help you stay present, observant, and in control.
09Stay in Public, Stay Safe
Private spaces can wait — early trust-building happens in public.
10Keep It Simple
Smile, talk, listen — and have fun being you.