The Saucy Dates tour
Less form filling. More room for a connection.
Getting started should be quick, and your privacy should matter from the beginning. Saucy Dates keeps signup questions to a minimum so you can explore, show interest and decide what comes next.
01 / Get started
A short signup, with safety built in
Just the essentials
We ask for your first name, city and gender. Sexuality is optional. Keeping questions to a minimum helps you get started quickly while sharing less personal information.
Liveness at signup
A liveness check during signup helps verify age and identify fake accounts and scammers. Saucy Dates is for adults aged 18 and over.
Photos are your choice
You do not have to add a profile picture. Decide what you feel comfortable sharing as you explore the service.
Checks help protect the community, but cannot guarantee another person's intentions. Keep using your judgement when chatting and meeting.
02 / Explore
Find people who fit what you are looking for
Use search filters to focus on the profiles you want to explore. Look nearby, choose a country or adjust your preferences as you discover the service.
Location positions are approximate to help protect privacy. Treat distance as a guide, and agree on a public meeting place rather than trying to identify where someone lives.
03 / Show interest
Start with a Hot or a flirt
Swap Hots for free
A Hot is a simple signal of attraction, similar to a like. Free members can exchange Hots to see whether the interest is mutual.
Send a free flirt
Enter a flirt message to introduce yourself to multiple people. It is a free way to show interest rather than a full one-to-one private conversation.
Take the conversation further
An upgrade unlocks full one-to-one private messaging, giving you space to discuss your interests, expectations and plans directly.
Explore before you upgrade
Joining, looking around, exchanging Hots and sending flirts are free. You can discover the service and see whether you receive interest before deciding to pay.
Full private messaging is an upgrade
Check the current upgrade options and prices in the service before purchasing. Paying for messaging is a choice to take part more fully; it does not guarantee a reply, genuine intentions or a date.
04 / Stay in control
Privacy is part of the service, from the start
Share less
Minimal signup questions, optional sexuality and optional photos let you make choices about the information you provide. GPS positions are approximate.
Block and report
Block someone when you do not want further contact, and report suspicious or inappropriate behaviour. You do not owe anyone a conversation.
Leave when you choose
Account deletion is easy to access when you decide the service is no longer for you. Contact support if you need help managing your account.
Keep your address and financial information private. Never send money to someone you have only met online. Read our dating safety guide for practical advice.
A few useful answers
Do I have to add a photo or sexuality?
No. Both are optional. Signup asks for your first name, city and gender, with a liveness check during the process.
Is a flirt a private message to one person?
No. Flirts go to multiple people. Full one-to-one private messaging requires an upgrade.
Does verification mean every member is safe?
No. Liveness checks help verify ages and identify fake accounts and scammers, but no check guarantees someone's behaviour. Use blocking and reporting when needed and follow the safety guidance.
Where can I get help?
Read the account questions or contact support.